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The Last Stand of Mom-and-Pop: A Grumpy Old Fart Remembers


Settle in, folks, because this old-timer's about to spin a lament for the death of the local cornerstone stores we all once knew. It was a world where the small-time grocer, the corner drugstore, and the downtown office supply were more than places of business—they were the beating heart of the community. They've become collateral in a war they never signed up for, fighting in vain against the leather-bound wallets of those colossal retail chains that shadow our towns.


For nearly four decades, I've called a plot of Westwood in Palestine my home. There was a rhythm here once, the kind of living cadence you can't manufacture. The iconic "Harris Food Market" wasn't just close and handy; it was family. It had bones. The shoppers had names and stories Mr. Harris himself would listen to or share while bagging your sundries. And, Mr Harris was a huge supporter of Westwood school sports as well! That's something you'll never see in the slick, cold aisles of a Walmart Supercenter, where the cashiers seem to change more often than the seasons (if you're lucky enough to find one) and your name's as forgettable as yesterday's barcode.


When I saw that closing sign in Harris' window, it was as if a pal had clinched a bad diagnosis. Mr. Harris, who threw his life's work into that store, only threw in the towel because it's hard to box shadows—those impersonal mega-retailers that squatted on our outskirts, with their bulk buys and cut prices.


Small businesses like Harris’ believed that customer service was not a strategy; it was a genuine effort to make your day a smidge better. And let's chat about the town's old "Staples" office supply, not your blue-and-red branding nightmare, but a staple indeed in our town. Staff knew their wares from attic to cellar. They made the musty magic of paper and ink feel like home. But then came Office Depot, with their industrial-sized stock and copy center. The battle was brief, and the defeat? The ink had barely dried on their "Going Out of Business" sign.





We've got Walgreens and CVS now, spots so sterilized they might well sell personality by the pill if only they could manufacture it. But they can’t. No corporation on earth can package the warmth of a hometown handshake or the comfort of a seller who knows your ills by heart.


So here I am, a little older, a touch angrier, grappling with the quiet exit of friendly faces and personal service, replaced by self-checkouts that have all the charm of a parking meter. All the while, Big Pharma’s tightening its grip, that faceless behemoth playing chess with our healthcare as if it were a sport. They've taken the community out of healthcare, scrubbing away the storied patina of a local drugstore with the astringent sting of corporate policy.


My grumbles are more than mere nostalgia; they're an air horn in the quiet pervading acceptance of this so-called 'progress'. You know, a wise man once said that not all progress is forward, and I guess that sometimes it’s a march straight back to where we started. Oh sure, you can get your groceries, hardware and prescription all in the same place, but you're doing it alone! Here's to having good navigational skills?


This old heart aches for what we've lost to the unchecked sprawl of retail monarchs and pharma kings. As I salute the fallen flags of those local purveyors, I urge you to remember not just their names, but the stories they harbored, the community they cultivated.


What’s the moral of this grumpy old tale? Maybe it's a call to arms or a plea to remember—to think of those chain stores as the last resort, not the first. To seek out what local embers still glow and fan those flames. Because as these giants draw nearer, our choices narrow, diversity fades, turning our towns into indistinguishable nodes on a corporate grid, pulling the dollars out and the soul along with it.


But as long as this grumpy old fart keeps breathing, I'll champion the underdog and the mom-and-pop shop, those unsung heroes of the American dream. For when we lose them, we lose more than a store. We lose chapters of our identity, the very narrative of our collective story. And that, my friends, is not something I’ll let go of without a fight.

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